3.16-LOOKING FOR THE POSITIVE ASPECTS OF THE EVENTS IN WHICH HE TENDS TO SEE ONLY THINGS THAT HE DISLIKES
Abu Hurayrah said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘No believing man should hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one aspect of her character, he will be pleased with another.’”
The benefits of this hadeeth include: lifting anxiety and stress, preserving tranquillity, continued upholding of the duties which are either obligatory or encouraged, and the achievement of peace between the two parties. Anyone who is not guided by the Prophet’s words, but does the opposite, will see only the negative aspects of a situation, and will be blinded to the positive aspects. So it is inevitable that he will become anxious and depressed, the relationships between him and those with whom he is inclose contact will turn sour, and he will neglect many of the mutual duties that both parties should pay attention to.
Source: Islam basics by Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
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