PART 4: 150 WAYS TO BE DUTIFUL TO YOUR MOTHER
91. If you live in the same town where your mother lives , try to live near her as much as you can as it helps keeping ties of kinship solid and it simplify the way for you to act piously.
92. If you work in another city, take into account visiting her at any opportunity, and don’t be late since she has patience waiting for you and she will not complain when she needs to be patient with his affairs.
93. It is not enough to visit her alone but you should take your family with you. Your wife and children until an appropriate relationship for her is formed between her and your family.
94. Avoid your ego and your desires, give the preference of your mother over yourself, and request her to accept that; as fulfilling her desire is part of the perfection of dutifulness.
95. Sit with yourself and review your deeds; how good your performance was towards your mother? Whether you were satisfactory or not or still needing more to reach her satisfaction .
96. Be sure that whatever you did to your parents, it will return back to you; if you are dutiful, your children will be so, and if it is the other way around, you will experience the same. So, work on achieving their satisfaction, then you will be happy in this life and in the hereafter.
97. In the event that she is sick, attend to her and bring who you want to serve her.
98. Do not neglect praising her taste in the presence of all, in terms of buying clothes, or her appearance etc .
99. Narrate to her your actions of your journeys, during which you can show her the pictures of you and your friends; all that will result in her praying for you, which is the higher purpose.
100. Receive her concerns in a welcoming manner, and accept her remarks and execute her instructions humbly .
101. Consult her and take her advice.
102. When you are sitting with her, sit in a manner that suits her status.
103. During the meal, follow the manners of eating with her; prefer her over yourself by giving her what she likes of foods and drinks.
104. Understand her psychological state of mind and the way she lives treat her accordingly. Try to know her tendencies and provide her with more than what she deserves.
105. The daughters must not be busy with their married lives until it causes dilemmas with care of her mother ; her attribution to her family must not affect her dutifulness to her mother, since the daughter has a special position with her mother.
106. Some of the mother’s private matters cannot be known by her sons; so, preferably the daughter should be alert in this regard and not forget about her mother.
107. During the visit to your family, don’t let your children spoil or ruin her house. As a result, mother will be burdened with fixing them.
108. If your children ruin some of your mother’s house properties, you must fix the damages and substitute it with something better.
109. Normally the patient state of mind changes; so, it is better to visit them during their sickness provided that we should be alert to prevent her from the children making noise.
110. With the increase of the number of the children visiting, it is preferable to organize a visiting schedule because bringing all children at once on the same day is not necessary.
111. It is worth those having a lot of children to take them to a reasonable place where the mother cannot be annoyed by their noise such as: a park, a spacious place where she can relax.
112. To make a charity work is a suitable act presented by children as a gift and reciprocity of gratefulness to the mother.
113. Each one of the children is talented in a certain activity for example: some of them are hard workers, some are sociable etc.. Try to be dutiful in that which you are gifted.
114. It is preferable that each son should know his characteristics that are loved by his mother, and try to use them.
115. If you want to capture your mother’s heart, never stop visiting her. A mother never tires of seeing her children.
116. Provide her with modern communication devices; teach her how to use them, how she can utilize them and the bill should be paid by you.
117. If the mother possesses a cellular phone, send her the best wishes as it remains in her heart and increases love.
118. If the mother is old, you may wrap a set of gifts in order to give them to her friends and acquaintances .
119. When calling your mother, do not be in a hurry, but slow down and listen to her until you know her needs, and do not hang up before she does.
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